Well girls (or homosexual men) that read my blog would you please do me the honor of describing exactly what your idea of the perfect men is? Please do not say, my husband, my boyfriend or any other significant other, just describe the person please.
Now you probably wonder why in the hell I would ask that. Well it is because of a friend story (I'm well aware that 99% of the time when we say something happened to a friend it had happened to us but this rest squarely in the 1%). You see my friend (who does not read this blog hopefully) wanted to date this woman, not the most attractive woman to me but he really like her so we encouraged him to try. Well he finally got a date, to go and see a show... and thing fell appart for him there, first off he didn't sit with her (kinda of a bad sign for a date) and then afterward when he was driving her back to her apartment she proceeded to tell him about her "perfect" guy... all the while he was falling in the friend black hole.
Now please post your version before you read the following... please to be fair.... come on I know your still reading...
Well basically what she told him is kinda depressing, I don't have all the details (we decided not to press the poor guy to much about that) but it rolls down to... She wants a guy that controls her but let her be free. That choose the movies but choose the one she likes always, that is ambitious but place her above his job. That makes lots of money but no more then she does (she's gonna be a medical doctor). That is passionate about thing but will never argue with her or have opinion different then she does except when she wants him to. And finally the only thing that don't involve a contradiction good looking and taller then she is. (And as a joke I would add that sign Celine Dion but on a Death metal beat.)
Now I understand my ever relaxing "standard" (for a girl) can be high but they don't involve actual paradox or contradiction do they? If they do I'm sure yofed and piccolo will point them out :-p